Life
isn’t about keeping score. It’s not about how many friends you have. Or
how accepted you are. It’s not about if you have plans this weekend or
if you’re alone. It isn’t about who you’re dating, who you used to date,
or how many people you’ve dated, or if you haven’t been with anyone at
all. It isn’t about whom you’ve kissed. It isn’t about sex. It isn’t
about who your family is or how much money they have. Or what kind of
car you drive. Or which school or College you attended. Life isn’t about
how beautiful or ugly you are. Or what clothes you wear, what shoes you
have on, or what kind of music you listen to. It’s not about if your
hair is blonde, red, black or brunette. Or if your skin is too light or
too brown. It’s not about what grades you get, how smart you are, or
even how smart everybody thinks you are, or how smart standardized test
say you are. It’s not about what clubs you’re in, or how good you are at
“your” sport.
But, Life is about who you love and who you hurt.
It’s about who you make happy or unhappy purposefully. It’s about
keeping or betraying trust. It’s about friendship, used as a sanctity or
as a weapon. It’s about what you say and mean, maybe hurtful, maybe
heartening. It’s about starting rumors and contributing to petty gossip.
It’s about what judgments you pass and why. It’s about whom you have
ignored with full control and intention. It’s about jealousy, fear,
ignorance and revenge. It’s about carrying inner hate and love, letting
it grow, and spreading it. But most of all, it’s about using your life
to touch or poison other people’s hearts in such a way that could have
never occurred alone. Only you choose the way those hearts are affected,
and those choices are what life’s all about.
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